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Stuck on what to say to open a conversation on a Dating App?

Don't use the age old - How are you? Or hows your day been? They are a tag boring!


Here are 50 great openers to spark real conversations!


Would you like to talk to a guy who can kill spiders for you?


Honest opinion: Pineapple on pizza—yes or no?

 

If you could have dinner with any historical figure, who would you choose and why?

 

What’s one place you’ve travelled to that completely stole your heart?


Would you rather go on a trip to the beach or to the mountains?


What's your favourite thing to do after work?


If you had one extra hour every day, how would you spend it?


What's your favourite movie of all time?


What's the weird food combination that you really enjoy?


What's your secret talent? Everyone has one.


What's the weirdest food you've ever tried?


If you could blink and be anywhere in the world, where would you choose to go?

 

I’m torn between asking about your dream holiday or your ultimate comfort food… so, tell me both!

 

What’s your signature dish? And should I be impressed or concerned?

 

Describe your perfect weekend in three emojis - go!

 

If we swapped Spotify playlists for a day, what’s the one song I’d be most surprised to find?

So, tell me - what’s one thing life has taught you that you'd pass on as advice?

 

If you could relive one amazing day from your past, which would it be?

 

I’m more about meaningful conversations than small talk - what’s a topic you could chat about for hours?

 

What’s something you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t got around to yet?

 

I’m curious; what’s the best book or film you’ve ever experienced, and why?

 

What’s the most unexpected turn your life has taken, and how did it shape you?

 

Describe your perfect Sunday - lazy morning with coffee or out and about exploring?

 

They say music brings back memories - what’s a song that instantly transports you to a special time in your life?

What’s one thing you never thought you’d try, but ended up loving?

 

If your younger self could see you now, what do you think they’d be most proud of?

 

What’s a simple pleasure in life that never fails to make you smile?

 

Tell me about a place that holds a special meaning for you - what makes it so memorable?

 

What’s the best piece of life advice you’ve ever received?

 

If you could bottle up one feeling and relive it whenever you wanted, what would it be?

 

What’s one thing you’ve learned about yourself in the last few years?

 

If we were to cook dinner together, what dish would you insist we make?

 

They say laughter is the key to a great connection - what’s the last thing that made you properly laugh out loud?

 

What’s a goal or dream you still have on your list, and what’s stopping you from chasing it?

What’s one thing you’ve done in life that you never expected to?

 

If you could relive any decade of your life, just for the fun of it, which one would you choose?

 

What’s a skill or hobby you’ve always wanted to learn but never got around to?

 

If we could teleport anywhere right now for dinner, where would we go?

 

What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?

 

Describe your perfect evening - does it involve good food, great conversation, live music, or something else?

 

If someone made a film about your life, what would the title be?

 

They say you can tell a lot about someone by their taste in movies -what’s your all-time favourite?

 

What’s one tradition or routine in your life that you absolutely love?

 

If I asked your closest friends to describe you in three words, what do you think they’d say?

 

What’s the most ridiculous thing you’ve ever Googled?

 

If there were an Olympic event for procrastination, what would you be putting off training for?

 

If you had to be stuck in a lift with one celebrity, who would you pick (and who would drive you mad)?

 

What’s your most impressive yet completely useless skill?

 

If your life had a theme song that played every time you walked into a room, what would it be?

 

If we were on a pub quiz team together, what would be your specialist subject?

So, what’s your go-to fun fact that makes you sound incredibly interesting at dinner parties?

 

On a scale from ‘occasionally misplaces keys’ to ‘full-blown treasure hunt,’ how bad are you at remembering where you put things?

 

 If your pet (or houseplant) could talk, what embarrassing story would they tell about you first?





 
 
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